[ SECRET POST #859 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #859 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[BLUR]


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[Ouran]


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[Chuck]


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[Adrian Edmondson and Rik Mayall]


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[Vocaloid]


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[Saint Young Men]


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[X-men evolution]


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[Tonight's The Night]


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[Dollhouse]


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[Rachael Ray]


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[The Horrors]


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[Rollercoaster]


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[Skins]


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[Supernatural]


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[Emma Watson]


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[The Big Bang Theory]


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[Sinfest]


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[24]


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[Megas XLR]


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[NCIS]


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[Harper's Island]


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[Transformers]


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[Southland]


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[Kings]


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[Teen Titans]


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[DBZ]


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[Sweet Valley]


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[Primeval]


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[FF7]


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[Supernatural]


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[Southland]


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[Harry Potter]


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[title of show]


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[Questionable Content]


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[Ohno Satoshi]


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[Naruto]


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[moot/creepychan]


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[Zoey 101]


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[YGO]


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[Pokemon]


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[YGO]



Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 139 secrets from Secret Submission Post #123.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 2 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

150. http://i42.tinypic.com/k39oqa.png

[radiopowered.livejournal.com]

haha oh wow
Yes, abusive friendships are so moe~

[misty-days.livejournal.com]

Much like bright teal hair, tsundere is one of those things that just isn't as cute in real life. Anyway, your current lack of self esteem is troubling and you should probably tell your friend to stop hitting you. :|

[nakotaco.livejournal.com]

wtf, that person is not your friend.

[onnanifujiyuu.livejournal.com]

I have a friend who's seemingly the same way, except she doesn't hit me. maybe once in a while but it's weak. She does get a little too violent with some other people which I call her on. In other words: I stood up for myself stand up for yourself!

I also joke openly to her about her being a tsundere.

*Maybe doesn't apply since I'm a guy*

[tsukinofaerii.livejournal.com]

Still applies, even if you're a guy. There are such things as abused men; they're just a lot less likely to report it.

[weallfallout.livejournal.com]

There's a reason why we call such things "comedic violence." It's not funny in real life, and you shouldn't put upt with that from someone you call a friend.

[rabbitucker.livejournal.com]

You know, we teach this sort of thing to our eight-year-olds in school, but it's amazing how many people forget it when they reach adolesence:

Tell your friend so. If she does not respect your body or your personal space, then she is not your friend.

It's all so obvious really. Kids these days...

[twyla-hime.livejournal.com]

Ugh, this is why I hate those character archetypes.
You have an abusive friend, not a deredere one. That stereotype is totally fictional and wrongly idealized. You shouldn't take that crap from her.
Take a break from the anime if it's starting to influence you this much.

[fun-french-fri.livejournal.com]

I understand you, anon! I have experience with a few of those friendships. They're nice.

If it ever does get abusive, get out or ask her to stop hitting you, okay?

[ownsimscorner.livejournal.com]

It looks to me like it`s already abusive. Did your friends hit you too?

[fun-french-fri.livejournal.com]

Nooo. I'm pretty sure it's different than what people are thinking here. It's hard to explain.

If you guys think it's abusive and want to advise her on it, go ahead. (I realize I sound like I'm in some horrible relationship here.) Then the anon can decide for herself.

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

Do you mean you horse-play with your friend, or she kind of lightly taps you with her fist when she's making a point, then laughs?

Or do you mean she really socks you when she gets pissed?

If it hurts, it's gone too far -- like I said to the OP, she does that to the wrong person she could end up spitting teeth, so it's a really bad habit to have.

[childings.livejournal.com]

What is that artwork from and where did you get it?

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

Your friend hitting you isn't cool. It's fucked up. Don't be a doormat -- for her sake. She needs to kick that habit before someone starts smacking her back.

[plural-force.livejournal.com]

...I don't understand the flood of "omg abuse" comments here. OP never defined "hitting."

So, question for OP-- are you referring to just, like, hitting someone in a joking manner to make a point without actually meaning to do harm, or actually purposely inflicting pain?

I can certainly see where people would think it could be abusive, but on the other hand? My friends and I "hit" each other playfully all the time and it doesn't actually mean anything. Secret makes it unclear as to which of the two this is referring to.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

I'm pretty sure it's supposed to be in a joking manner?

But it hurts and sometimes bruises?

I don't know?

[eldena.livejournal.com]

Well, if you think she's just trying to joke around, it's always possible that she simply doesn't realize she's hitting harder than she should. I used to try that kind of thing sometimes when I was younger (and more into anime, incidentally...), but I had a tendency to underestimate myself, cause I'm small and scrawny and I kind of grew up with the idea that I can't do any damage to anyone. In retrospect, I'm pretty sure it was a lot less funny than I'd thought it would be.

Then again, I did that at least once in my pre-anime days when I was even younger, and cocked it up worse by apparently not quite realizing that you're not supposed to actually hit people full force when you're joking. ...Not my smoothest move, I've always felt bad about that.

All that said, if she does know she's hurting you and keeps doing it, then yeah, that's still messed up. Even if she doesn't mean anything by it, she shouldn't treat it as a normal way to interact with someone, you know?

...

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, so I'm over here rolling my eyes at the people shouting "abuse!" because, uh, I kind of *am* that friend sometimes. But if she's hitting so hard she actually *bruises* you? She's doing it wrong.

[sessile29.livejournal.com]

You people are insane. It's not an OMG ~ABUSIVE~ relationship. Jesus.

[sessile29.livejournal.com]

And you people need to realize that it's a cultural thing - there's a reason why the tsundere type exists. A lot of Asian friends I've had, and myself included, play-hit all the time. It's a sign of feeling at ease enough with someone that you can do that without it going over badly, like when you play-insult your friends. But actually, I got that tendency hounded out of me when I was younger by people who interpret any sort of physical touch harder than a hug as OMG VIOLENCE. Ridiculous.

[sakurabatou.livejournal.com]

I had a friend in middle school who used to give another friend of mine a whack with her school binder every time she said something stupid. Eventually the second friend's reflexes improved to the point where she didn't get hit anymore. XD (sadly, she didn't learn to stop saying dumb things)

What makes it "violent" or "abusive" is how much it bothers you, really. If you don't like getting hurt, speak up.

[(Anonymous)]

Only social retards hit hard enough to bruise as part of everyday interaction, 'joking' or not. Tsundere in RL is fucking annoying.

[phoenix39.livejournal.com]

Even if it is in a joking manner, it's not okay if it actually hurts and bruises form. Tell your so-called 'friend' to back off! Things will escalate into something bigger if you don't do something about it.