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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-01-20 05:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #5859 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5859 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Children of Silentown]



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[Arknights]



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06. [SPOILERS for Gundam: The Witch From Mercury]




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07. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]




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08. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia/underage]




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09. [WARNING for discussion of domestic violence]
































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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Based on 3

(Anonymous) 2023-01-21 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
There are tons of kinks I only like the informal version of. As soon as you bring proper, responsible kink negotiation into it, I’m usually bored. Enthusiastically consensual but very under-negotiated is where it’s at for me, one thousand percent.

If there’s a kink that can be consensual or nonconsensual (eg. Tentacle porn), I usually only like the consensual version.

There are a fair few kinks I only enjoy when they’re M/M*, such as:

- Anything with biological imperatives, because seeing a female character’s autonomy over her own body undermined pretty much always makes me ragey not horny.

- Virgin characters. I absolutely love virgin characters in M/M but there tends to be way too much baggage that comes with it for me when the character is female.

- A lot of forms of dirty talk. Again, too much baggage when it’s a man reveling in how a woman feels like she was “made for him” or how she’ll “take it anywhere, she’s so needy,” or various possessive statements. Even praise kink which I absolutely love in M/M can be a bit of a minefield with F/M, for me, because it can trip over into condescending/infantilizing really easily, and then we’re back to ragey not horny.

*Hypothetically I’d probably be a lot more okay with these kinks in F/F, too. I’ve just never really been into any F/F ships--yet, anyway--so for me it’s kind of moot.

Re: Based on 3

(Anonymous) 2023-01-21 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
There are tons of kinks I only like the informal version of. As soon as you bring proper, responsible kink negotiation into it, I’m usually bored.

Same. I have no interest in characters having whole conversations about this stuff, even if that's the responsible thing to do. I'm just here for smut and feelings.