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It's like the 'ask your question here!' Reddit I went into once to ask a research question for a fic, and got all sorts of nonsense, snotty replies, and 'well, ACTUALLY' crap.
I got a wee record player for Xmas, because I still have records but nothing to play them on. It cost about 50 bucks and is in a cute little case, turquoise blue. Works just fine for me!
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 01:04 am (UTC)(link)Judging by how you say "mostly caters to men" you don't know the lolita community, do you?
Elitist rich hobbyists are a disease and they are everywhere.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 09:21 am (UTC)(link)Doesn't change that you chose to single out men especially /shrug
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 02:58 am (UTC)(link)Based purely on my own experience with the fragrance community, I agree with you on this. When I first started getting into the online fragrance community I thought it would be mostly women, but lol, hell no! Not even close! It's a hobby that hinges heavily on learning lots and lots of trivia, and acquiring a collection of expensive items that basically function as visual representations of how much money one can spend and how much respect one's engagement in the hobby ought to command. So of course it's mostly men.
Like, I don't hate the fragcomm. It's mostly okay, most of the time. But when you bop over to the female fragrance sub on reddit, it's just overall a lot more casual and positive, and just a bunch of people sharing in an interest. Whereas the "main" fragrances sub, which skews male, is still mostly a fine community, but there is an ever-present element of flex culture and having Good Taste, and knowing the Right Brands, which is well exemplified by the number of posts that are like, "25M, rate my collection!" and it's like thirty super popular fragrances that come up over and over again, and half of them cost more than $250 per bottle.
Female-dominated hobbies can absolutely spawn toxic communities, but in general there's a particular attitude of "I'm a TRUE fan/hobbiest because I know all the right facts and have all the right tools" that tends to be way, way more prevalent in male-dominated hobby communities.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 12:42 am (UTC)(link)Cut to a few weeks ago and I've never been so glad to have been too poor throughout my 20s to get into vinyl record collecting. I was recommended Benn Jordan's video that questions if it's toxic or not on Youtube:
https://youtu.be/aZ2czFuIYmQ
I don't know if there's been further study on this, but based on the small investigation I did on this...I don't think I'll ever buy vinyl records.
This is the newest video by The Vinyl Guru one year ago that I just watched. Seems like...more or less nothing has really changed.
https://youtu.be/M5_Vm8F3UIw
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 02:23 am (UTC)(link)It was a total waste of money.
I am so grateful for the tiny footprint of digital music today, holy shit. I can carry tons of playlists in my pocket and play them in my car and don't have to buy a bunch of equipment? (I do have a good receiver/speakers anyway for the home theater stuff.)
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 12:54 am (UTC)(link)It's (no offense to vinyl lovers, I would love to steal my dad's collection if I had my own record player just for the nostalgia) like someone gatekeeping boomboxes or something.
Get what works and don't worry about what everyone else is doing with their music.
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Haven't bought a new speaker set yet but this little guy has been letting me listen to my King Gizzard and The Lizard Wizard records, so thats something.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 03:30 am (UTC)(link)Hmm.
(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 03:58 am (UTC)(link)Re: Hmm.
(Anonymous) 2023-02-19 04:07 am (UTC)(link)Re: Hmm.
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I guess I'm not a "serious" vinyl fan if all my stuff is vintage, lol.
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(Anonymous) 2023-02-20 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)and this seems like such a tiny issue to me vs not being able to listen to her records AT ALL, but she insists