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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-03-17 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #5915 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5915 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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04. [SPOILERS for Antman and Wasp: Quantumania]




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05. [SPOILERS for A Plague Tale]




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06. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]




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07. [WARNING for the standard JKR wank]




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08. [WARNING for possible discussion of transphobia]

[P Total Bio-Chemical Laboratory]



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09. [WARNING for possible discussion of suicide]

[The Living Tombstone]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of rape]

[Greek mythology]



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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2023-03-18 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'm with you, anon. My sister are bullies - I've only just realised it. ZZThey are toxic as hell and my parents didn't protect me from them, being too narcissistic to even notice. I'm so grateful to my friends but am afraid of driving them off. Consequently I';m a drain on the local mental health services.

Why do people have to be nasty? Why, if fact, can't we all just get along? Or even just be civil to each other?

Most of my family hasn't spoken to me for a year. I've recently initiated contact because my mother went into hospital - and instead of being thanked for the heads-up, got grilled on how I knew.

Sorry I'm kinda making this all about me. But I do know what you're going through, anon. I really do, and you have my hugs if you want them. You're not alone, though it may feel like it.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2023-03-18 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Here in solidarity with you nonny! Thanks for replying even though it's about painful family stuff.
I do not mind you venting in reply to me at all nonny. <3
It sounds like you have a lot going on in your life. Unload as much as you need.
I might not know what to say but I am reading and I'm sitting here with you. I'm sorry you lack so much support and care in your life.
My small support is here if you want it. <3

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2023-03-18 06:57 am (UTC)(link)
Hugs, nonny, hugs.

Re: Vent

(Anonymous) 2023-03-18 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt

Why do people have to be nasty? Why, if fact, can't we all just get along? Or even just be civil to each other?

I dunno. Those are very good questions. If I thought long and hard about it, I'd say it's a mix of ego (insecurity mostly), upbringing, miscommunication, and possibly resentment of having to adjust one's existing worldview (possibly fear of what it might mean for them personally). Well, maybe I'm speaking very generally here. Point is, it's very rarely about the other person.

You deserved better and still deserve better than the family you grew up in. I'm not saying it's easy, but everyone has a choice, and it sounds like those family members continue to choose toxicity. Your friends sound awesome. I doubt you're a "drain" on services that are meant to help people going through what you're going through and similar.