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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-03-20 05:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #5918 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5918 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-03-21 10:05 am (UTC)(link)
See, I somewhat empathize with your not wanting your reputation tarnished by what other people do, but in my experience, the people who unfairly judge you *from what other people do* are going to be unfair to you, regardless. They're already being unfair by not bothering to form an opinion (on you) that's based on what they know of you.

And this is a problem anywhere there's a label. Should gays browbeat their effeminate men because those are the most offensive to heterosexuals? Should feminists disown plain-faced women because they don't want to be associated with those who the patriarchy thinks the least of? Respectability politics are corrosive everywhere. And the result usually isn't a more attractive, functional group, anyway - just a group that's excluding some of the people that outsiders will identify with it, regardless.

(Anonymous) 2023-03-21 10:57 am (UTC)(link)
DA

I totally agree.

I say this as someone who has been bullied. People who bully can come up with the flimsiest, most exotic excuses to hurt others, sometimes even after the bullying incident has occurred.