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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-03-30 05:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #5928 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5928 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-03-31 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
With that said, I do find it frustrating that sometimes people are actually hostile to the very notion of discussing the psychology of kinks. Like, even if the person isn't speaking for anyone but themselves, there are people who will act like they're being uptight and catering to antis for wanting to engage with the question. And it's like, no, some of us just want to engage with the question because engaging with those sorts of questions feels good to us.

Oh, I hear this, because I think it's a fascinating subject and it's totally worthy of discussion. As long as there isn't an assumption (spoken or unspoken) that the goal of analyzing your kinks should be to think yourself out of having them. It's almost impossible to have this conversation in good faith with people who have that notion as an underlying baseline. Unfortunately that's all too common and frankly I feel much safer doing my kink-examining with trusted friends in semi-private spaces.

(Anonymous) 2023-03-31 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this is totally fair!