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(Anonymous) 2023-03-31 06:13 am (UTC)(link)I believe we would do better to talk about kinks to destigmatize them as a means to separate sexual desires/fantasies from who people are outside of that.
But of course, if some others don't see it that way, I just have to accept it.
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(Anonymous) 2023-03-31 07:05 am (UTC)(link)I'm in favor of both. I'm in favor of recognizing that kinks often don't mean anything concrete or specific or significant about who a person is in the social sense. Like, to everyone who is not that person, the fact that they have that kink should basically just be taken to mean they have that kink.
However, I'm personally a lot more interested in the psychology of kinks as described by the individuals who have them, as well as the psychology of kinks much more broadly, from sociological, cultural, and historical perspectives, etc.
And those things aren't mutually exclusive. The fact that psychology is an innate aspect of kink doesn't negate that kinks should not be stigmatized or viewed as defining who a person is.