[ SECRET POST #5928 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5928 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 11 secrets from Secret Submission Post #848.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

If you want to talk about kinks I'd recommend going to a kink focused space. Somewhere the folks have self-selected for wanting to think/talk/listen about the subject instead of simply enjoying it.

No matter how neutral you think you're being going up to a stranger and saying "Explain yourself!" is going to be taken poorly. But if you catch people mid-stream talking about their thoughts and experiences you can probably ask specific questions and it's felt as engagement instead of judgement.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

This. Check out fetlife and look for local events. If you live in a rural area, it's going to be a lot harder than if you live in a metro area. There are creepers, sure, but there are some awesome kinksters out there who have already done this kind of work and wouldn't mind discussing in depth with someone who is just starting to understand their own kink needs.

Kink in real life, btw, is a lot different than kink in fanfiction. I think fanfic can help jumpstart a deeper kink interest, but most people are not going to do that work in front of strangers online, especially when doxxing comes into the picture. I don't mind my family and friends knowing what I write about if I were to be doxxed, but in-depth breakdowns of the psychological work in my actual kink journey that happens in my bedroom, behind closed doors? No.

I'm an older adult who has discussed kink with real life friends, too, but even those convos didn't delve into the mental work I've done or the deeper reasons why I like what I like... and there are some things that I like simply because they're hot to fantasize and play out, but not in reality.