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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-05-20 02:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #5979 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5979 ⌋

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Re: TW : mental health stuff

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2023-05-20 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I wanna get one tbh from everything i hear. I'm enough of a wreck without this.

Also what's aggravating is how often my dad plays it down and jokes and acts like it's not a big deal sometimes . I feel like there are times when he doesn't try to get what an issue it causes me. He does try sometimes tho but ...idk.
With my bipolar i can sometimes get straight up suicidal for no reason then I calm down and it just flips off.

It kinda scares me .

Re: TW : mental health stuff

(Anonymous) 2023-05-20 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I know it wouldn't help with the mental issues, but your dad should be forced to wear one of those cramps simulators. Men can never handle it.

Re: TW : mental health stuff

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2023-05-20 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah.
I just don't get how he is about it. After a wife and THREE daughters!!!

Re: TW : mental health stuff

(Anonymous) 2023-05-20 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt but honestly, men can be really dense and lacking in empathy that way. Women are half the planet's population, they're your mothers, wives and daughters and you STILL don't understand or take women's health (and body autonomy for that matter) seriously. I swear to god if men had to deal with this bs on a monthly basis, there'd be tears and drama and it'd be a major MRA talking point, but since they don't? *big ol' sexist shrug*

Re: TW : mental health stuff

(Anonymous) 2023-05-20 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Not lying.

Re: TW : mental health stuff

(Anonymous) 2023-05-21 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, there are plenty of women who also can't understand that stuff too because it doesn't happen to them.

I'm a woman and I honestly can't understand what people are talking about when they talk about having horrible cramps because I've never had anything worse than slight discomfort that goes away if I take a Tylenol.

Re: TW : mental health stuff

(Anonymous) 2023-05-21 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
Does your lack of firsthand experience with serious cramps and menstrual issues mean that you regularly dismiss other women's health concerns? Because if the answer is no, then you're not the kind of person that's being talked about here. You're not being singled out, so there's no need to #butwaitsomewomenareassholestoo the conversation about men who are idiots about women's health issues.

If the answer is yes... please do better. It doesn't take having terrible cramps yourself to grasp the fact that other people experience more pain than you, sometimes.