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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-05-21 04:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #5980 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5980 ⌋

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Re: Question

(Anonymous) 2023-05-22 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
I would usually only say that if I'm genuinely unsure if I can - like if I have a big project at work and I'm not sure if I'll have to work overtime instead, or I have an engagement beforehand that I can't leave early from and I'm unsure of the timing of. But I will usually say why if there are those specifuc reasons.

Sometimes I will also say it if I know I'll be totally worn out at around that time and I think I might just need to lie down instead of going. But that is rarer.

Even though I know that some peoe might say this as a way of avoiding saying 'no' to an invitation outright, I've found that's rare personally.

Though really you'll only know if you can answer the question 'does the person typically say this and then not show up to things?'