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fandomsecrets2023-06-16 06:21 pm
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(Anonymous) 2023-06-17 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)I am a person. I am a person with a uterus. I am also a woman. Someone calling me a person with a uterus does not make me NOT a woman. But it does affirm that I am a PERSON. And I have no problem with that. Why do you?
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(Anonymous) 2023-06-18 02:57 am (UTC)(link)Being born with six fingers is not a "natural variation of the human genome," and neither is being born with additional organs. Look up what it's like to actually live with these conditions and you will realize that very quickly. And you're talking to someone who both loved to find out about things that were out of the ordinary, as a kid, and got enough information to realize that being an albino or being double-jointed or having your heart on the wrong side or being one of a pair of conjoined twins *or so many other things that are highly unusual but not completely impossible* tend to come with a lot of inherent drawbacks. Of course it doesn't make the people who have them less as people, but what you're arguing is like saying that someone with chicken pox just has a distinctive epithelial experience of the world. What you're ignoring is significant in ways that make what you focus on seem really dishonest.
JK wasn't preventing anyone from calling themselves a person with a uterus if they wanted to. She was objecting to a trend of women being accused of being hate-mongers if they said "woman" and meant "part of the sex that can get pregnant." Or any number of other things that self ID, hormones, or a surgery don't change. She spoke up expressly because trans activists were alleging that any definition of "woman" that distinguished between someone who was born that way and someone who wasn't was somehow infringing on their (percieved) human right to claim every aspect of womanhood for themselves. And that anything a trans woman didn't have was irrelevant and should not be mentioned in polite society anymore. Like any self-respecting feminist, that argument did not convince her. It doesn't convince me, either.
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(Anonymous) 2023-06-18 02:54 pm (UTC)(link)If I were an infertile woman, I'd be fucking pissed too. Saying that only someone who can get pregnant is a woman is fucking MEAN. There is NO definition of "woman" that completely includes all AFAB and excludes all transwomen. NONE. By trying, you're telling a significant portion of the population of AFAB people that they're NOT WOMEN even though they have been born a woman, identified as a woman, and been treated as a woman their entire lives. All people are asking is that you don't be fucking mean to people.
I guess she, and you, aren't very good feminist because that IS GENDER ESSENTIALISM. "Oh, you're NOT A WOMAN unless you can GET PREGNANT and saying you are is offensive to meeeeeee." Grow the fuck up. Millions of child-bearing aged AFAB WOMEN can't get pregnant. WOMEN post menopause can't get pregnant. WOMEN who have had some life saving medical treatments can't get pregnant. Saying that those WOMEN aren't women because icky trans people also fall under that definition is not only positively BITCHY, it's also wrong.
No one is saying you can't call yourself a woman. We just want the language of those in AUTHORITY to acknowledge human variation. Hence, "people with uteruses" instead of women. Because there are women WITHOUT UTERUSES, who won't need whatever screening is being offered. Because, you know, they were born without one, or they had to have it removed because of cancer, or they're trans. All of them are WOMEN.
But go off feeling all righteous when absolutely nothing is being taken away from you but it makes other people feel more included and more comfortable.
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(Anonymous) 2023-06-18 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)"Those words are so mean!!" is a weak misdirection. Recognizing that women are the only people who can get pregnant and determining what all needs to happen so that they can keep control over their fertility (including taking steps to make it harder for men to rape women) has nothing to do with hurting the hypothetical feelings of infertile women. And plenty of women who are not risking pregnancy when they have sex care about avoiding situations where they could be raped for other reasons. This is why you run into resistance when trans activists propose that whether you have a penis or a uterus should make no difference in access to women's spaces. From women who are otherwise friendly to trans people.
It's narrow-minded of you to assume anyone who disagrees with you is choosing their political opinions out of a sense of self-interest. Regardless of how public policy changes, the chances of JK Rowling ever needing the services of a women-only rape crisis shelter are miniscule. When she funds one, and states that women should not be shamed out of asserting that gender-segregated facilities support their safety, she's looking out for other women.
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(Anonymous) 2023-06-19 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)Untrue. There's been at least one man who has been pregnant. Granted, YOU don't think he's a man, but he does, and he presents himself as a man and fills that role in society. So what you think doesn't matter.
It's not a misdirect at all. I was saying that not only are you wrong, you're also an asshole. Though research has come to conclude that being an asshole comes first, and then you build your worldview around it, so I don't have much hope for you. There was a recent article about how taking MDMA can make assholes realize that other people exist and have feelings though, so maybe give that a try?