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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-06-23 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #6013 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6013 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[The Witcher: Blood Origin]



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[Taskmaster]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of child pornography, child molestation/underage sexual assault]




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[Mysterious Skin]





























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(Anonymous) 2023-06-24 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
Ehhh. I mean, that'd be a generous approach, but I think it's understandable if not everyone wants to take it. It's not necessarily on OP to teach this person how to treat people, and the confrontation could range from merely awkward to triggering a full on stalker. OP has no way of knowing how mild or serious the reaction could be to telling someone that they're driving people away with their negative behaviors. That's why people ghost - to avoid having to deal with a potential blow up from someone who's already demonstrated a lack of social intelligence or boundaries.

(Anonymous) 2023-06-24 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I get what you're saying. I talk about the possibility of this solution because the ex-fandom-friend themselves put it forward: be honest and tell them if the friendship wasn't working. The "why" is just a bonus.