Someone wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets 2023-07-15 01:50 am (UTC)

My aroace people, how do you deal with being the 3rd wheel?

I'm actually the seventh wheel but it is all the same. My friend asked me if I wanted to go on a long weekend to a cabin in October. It would be her and her husband and two other couples (one I've never met and one I've only met once). We'd be drinking, playing board games, and hanging out.

I am reluctant because I hate being the odd one out in a group of couples.

It doesn't help that all the couples will be getting private rooms but I'll be in the game room loft. I don't have a door to close when I want to sleep at night or any place private to put my stuff (plus I'll have to change in a shared bathroom).

So, I think I would enjoy the gaming and drinking. But I'd hate being the odd one out and no privacy.

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