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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-08 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #6058 + 6059 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6058 + 6059 ⌋

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Re: Venting

(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Masturbation TMI below (this discussion may be TMI already, but I'll warn just in case)

I'm asexual and pretty repulsed by any sex in practice, but I was scared and wondered if I was broken or brainwashed after reading so many accounts about clitoral stimulation as the be-all-end-all of pleasuring a woman. They all talked about how it was soooooooo easy to get a woman to come if you just play with the clit a little, you don't even need to put your dick in, and if you do then it's for you, not her. Whereas I can play with my clit to the point of exhaustion and not feel anything, and I finally figured out I need to put my fingers inside me a little and BAM, problem solved. All the articles and advice posts made me think that was pointless because penetration is only good for the man to get his dick wet and I was worried I was so brainwashed by the notion of the man being more important, that to get off I needed to simulate that even though there is no man involved and I don't want there to be.

Eh. Realistically I wonder if touching your own clit is like trying to tickle yourself for some people, like me. Maybe it has to do with nerves that don't work unless someone else does it. But I've never seen any info about that. Everywhere all anyone talks about is the glorious feminist act of worshiping the clit.

Re: Venting

(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Well, to be fair clit goes around the opening and can be more sensitive in different places *shrugs*

Re: Venting

(Anonymous) 2023-08-11 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, same. Like, clit stimulation is nice and all, but I can't come from just that alone. I've tried and tried and it turns out I need some penetration too to go along with it. And like you, this was something I figured out from masturbation without having another person involved.