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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-08 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #6058 + 6059 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6058 + 6059 ⌋

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queenslayerbee: Isabelle Adjany as Lucy Harker in 1979's "Nosferatu the Vampire". She's surrounded by darkness, looking over her shoulder while she wears a white nightgown and a cross as a necklace. A hand with long nails like a claw is reaching for her neck from the darkness behind her. (Default)

Re: DA

[personal profile] queenslayerbee 2023-08-09 09:58 am (UTC)(link)
When you start rambling about your husband's magical cock to strangers you're inviting them to comment on your sex life sns (not to mention I hardly think what I said could be constructed as "hurtful", let alone in the same way). And since this is what the asshole cares about so much to trash other women she doesn't know anything about, yeah, I'm uselessly wishing a little sexual un-gratifiction upon her. The nerve.
Edited 2023-08-09 10:00 (UTC)

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 11:55 am (UTC)(link)
What makes you the person to decide what's hurtful and what isn't?

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Well I mean, ED is usually caused by heart problems. You're wishing a health issue on some guy who wasn't part of this conversation, probably doesn't even know it took place, in order to punish an entirely different person for...assuming someone that thinks masturbation is better than sex has had bad sex? It's one thing to wish someone has less satisfaction, but it's kinda messed up to wish for someone in their life, who wasn't even involved, to be unhealthy in order to make that happen.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Someone being slightly annoying does not at all illicit the need to wish a medical condition on a loved one of theirs because you're mad. You could have not responded but instead you went on the attack immediately like a child who can't handle a difference of opinion.

And I read it before you deleted your post and I don't agree entirely with the anon you're responding to, but they absolutely have a point about how that review was reading quite far into things just from looking at the snippets they posted. The story seems like the kind that would annoy the snot out of me, but nothing I saw was a bad as the reviewer was claiming either.

Other anon is perhaps being a bit sensitive about a random review, but you're not any better frankly. Also you don't get to decide what hurts other people's feelings, like my god do you even hear yourself?
queenslayerbee: Isabelle Adjany as Lucy Harker in 1979's "Nosferatu the Vampire". She's surrounded by darkness, looking over her shoulder while she wears a white nightgown and a cross as a necklace. A hand with long nails like a claw is reaching for her neck from the darkness behind her. (Default)

Re: DA

[personal profile] queenslayerbee 2023-08-09 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
FWIW I was thinking of impotence, not especifically ED (ESL problems). I have my personal reasons for lashing out, which I admit I did, that make that response go beyond annoying into damaging and offensive, but they're not as fun to get into as a magical penis.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2023-08-10 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
"Your feelings are real, but they aren't reality."

Nothing was said about your personal history, and nothing was aimed at it, because no one here knows about it. It sucks that you were reminded of it, but that feeling of offense and damage isn't really due to anything that was said, it's due to your own baggage. That baggage is valid, in as much as you clearly went through something that fucked with you, and it wasn't your fault. But it's not right to put it on other people.