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fandomsecrets2023-08-08 03:39 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #6058 + 6059 ⌋
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Re: Venting
(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)If it helps anon I'm a queer woman in a relationship with another woman and oral just... does not work on me, lol. Me and my gf have tried many times, in various ways, maybe I was too tense, maybe I was worried about how I smelt, etc. But as far as I can tell I am just really not wired for it, something about it doesn't work for me for whatever reason.
I used to think I was wired wrong as well but my gf has only ever reassured me that it's fine, and it's not my fault(if anything she thought she was doing something wrong instead, lol). But we've figured out what we like over the years and I'm a woman who enjoys penetration a lot when I'm in the mood for it so we have a dildo/vibe collection for me on that front and my gf is super happy to strap me when I want it. I'm not 'less' queer because I enjoy getting fucked.
Trying to politize our own personal sexual preferences is a losing battle because these are subjective things that don't fit into neat little 'is this progressive/not progressive' boxes and imo it's foolish and soul-crushing to try. Just let people enjoy what they like, it's not that hard.
Re: Venting
(Anonymous) 2023-08-09 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)