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Re: Random Thoughts
(Anonymous) 2023-08-12 04:01 pm (UTC)(link)I wonder if this varies by geography in the US. When I lived on the East Coast, I definitely saw/experienced bonding over small scale negative things like horrible bosses. When I moved to the Midwest, I saw less of that kind of bonding. That's not to say it doesn't exist. I am privy to it even in the age of remote work. On the other hand, it's not the default.
As for taking positivity for granted, I again think that attitude may differ depending on geography or other population factors. Strangely, both in Florida and the Midwest I've seen more of the opposite: a push toward toxic positivity. In those cases, I can understand why people don't want to engage with it. Hell, I only engage to push back and remind them that toxic positivity can make things worse for a lot of people. This tide of toxic positivity is actually what got me to start thinking about sharing more positive news in the first place. However, I'm very picky about what I share and want to make sure it promotes a substantial amount of good for diversity in all its forms (instead of sharing things that emphasize a "choose joy" mindset).
I figured sharing different sorts of positive news would be a balm for people who are both tired of all the negative news and have a wariness of toxic positivity. From what has been discussed here, there seems to be some subconscious hypocrisy at play. I've seen a similar version of this with political chatter on various social media platforms (such as Facebook, per Social Media Today: https://www.socialmediatoday.com/news/new-report-shows-that-meta-sought-to-cull-political-content-from-facebook/639740/?fbclid=IwAR04Lx4YBSHKX_8OCa1CXLQVnXck-F9UYuHatl7Xo4XmWIfsh0Z31NmT3kM). I admit I'm surprised to see this kind of behavior when it comes to more encouraging lines of discussion as well.