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fandomsecrets2023-08-20 04:21 pm
[ SECRET POST #6071 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6071 ⌋
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[The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock]
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[The Beach]
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 07:54 am (UTC)(link)Seems unfair to act like it's an all-guys thing, when there are men I'm entirely glad to share my fandoms with, but the people I've seen be gross about hoping they can get away with shit like "you roleplay sex, so that should mean you want sex - with me" have all been straight and male.
When you try to assure everyone that women are at least as bad, I just don't buy it. There's reasons people complain about unsolicited dick picks, and never "those damn lesbians who think everyone within DMing distance wants to see their vagina."
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 08:16 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 09:23 am (UTC)(link)You say you know women are getting away with instrusive shit, but you're not commenting in a way that the rest of us can tell what you're talking about. Thanks to callout culture in fandom, "actual groomers and predators" can mean very little. Are you saying underage girls were manipulated into meeting with adult women to have sex, as a result of erotic roleplay, and if so, which communities "blew up" on account of this scandal?
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 10:49 am (UTC)(link)But yes, women get away with stuff like explicit sexual roleplay with people they know are minors. Which has turned into them going for sexual info about their rp partners. Happened plenty of times, usually in discord channels. Haven't exactly saved all the deets for future use though, but I don't exactly care if you believe it or not, you're already convinced only men can be groomers anyway.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 11:15 am (UTC)(link)I’ve given exactly as many verifiable details for my scenario as you have, so it must be true.
If you’ve “seen multiple fandom communities” blow up, naming one (1) fandom community that was affected should be extremely easy for you to do.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 11:46 am (UTC)(link)And I said multiple RP/fandom communities, which fuck if I still know the exact RP discords that were affected, there were several over the years and I only read about it after the fact. Some might have been Genshin Impact or a CN novel fandom, fuck if I remember.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 11:25 am (UTC)(link)I had an underage person lie to me to get me to do explicit roleplay with them. That person identified as female at the time.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 11:47 am (UTC)(link)