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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-21 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #6072 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6072 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm the opposite. Reading about women's pleasure just bores me. I'm a woman who can experience a woman's pleasure firsthand, reading about it feels watered down. Or maybe that's just the excuse I tell myself because I'm a sheep who believes only men's pleasure is important because society told me so.

SA

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry OP, that sounded a lot like a snarky attack on you, but I didn't want for it to be. It's a real insecurity I have about myself but maybe this was the wrong place to vent it.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
In regards to your final sentence: um...what?

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I meant I'm worried that the reason reading about women's pleasure bores me is actually because society has taught me subliminally that it's unimportant. I'm worried that I only tell myself it bores me because it can't compare to the firsthand experience, because I don't want to confront the truth about why it bores me.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I guess that could be true. On the other hand, it could just be that you're straight - the male side is more interesting because you're attracted to men, not women.

I know I personally like reading about women's pleasure in part because, well, I'm attracted to women! It's hot because I'm imagining being the source of their pleasure, not because I'm imagining that it's me. If I were only attracted to men, I figure the female side probably wouldn't appeal to me as much.

I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be too rough on yourself, anon. It's probably just your orientation, and it's normal.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for understanding. I'm asexual and aromantic, so all the real-life experience I want to have of a sexual nature is solo, no men or other women. Now I'm wondering if some of my reason might actually be the same as tabaqui's below.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
I think we shouldn't over analyze our kinks and preferences too much, it's some anti shit. Yes, it's fun sometimes to find a source. And yes, a lot of our kinks string from our not so perfect society. But it's on us to change society and ourselves for the better, but it's not on us to change our kinks. They are just fantasies and brain wiring. So you prefer reading about some dick and OP prefers to read about vulvas. It's OK either way