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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-21 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #6072 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6072 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Meanwhile I'm over here being happy every time I find the rare story that isn't all about the bottom's pleasure regardless of whether they're male or female.

Most het stuff is receiver-focused too, even if it's the guy's POV.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a problem with some female-pleasure stuff because people made a sort of... personality that they gave to being the 'receiver.' And it's impossible to find (cis) female pleasure that isn't like that, because anything involving the female body unless she's just performing oral on another woman is about being the 'receiver.'

I hate feeling like a passive object that's being acted on by an active partner. I hate feeling submissive. I hate feeling needy/bratty/childlike/emotional but paired with a Stoic and Manly partner. I hate having to have a partner who is masculine, stoic, cocky, teasing, the Subject instead of the object.

But those are all thing people have applied to 'person who isn't penetrating someone' and unless you have a penis, you're not getting physical pleasure from penetrating someone, so physical pleasure has to come with an interpersonal role that makes me want to be sick if the character has a female body. And this is why I'm sure I would hate actual sex too.