[ SECRET POST #6072 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6072 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Are you around kids much? The baby is new. You sometimes have to force kids to interact with others. Especially a new sibling that the child may be feeling jealous or even scared of. If you don't force those interactions, they may not have any contact at all.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Forced contact is not going to make jealousy or fear go away. it may make it worse.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I can guarantee that you don't spend a ton of time around kids. Kids are not little adults.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Please tell us more about your real life firsthand successes with forcing children to do things they don't want to do, and how this is soooooo much better than trying to create a positive, non-coerced environment for them to adjust to big life changes.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a 3rd grade teacher who also spends time with other grades in the school regularly. You are the one who does not spend time around kids. And if you do, you should either stop immediately or drastically change the way you treat them. You're right: kids are not little adults... and you can't force them to behave like adults. This is literally the most basic knowledge you should have going into any job that involves kids -- including parenting! Unfortunately, parenting isn't a degree you can get, so a lot of parents and relatives of young children don't understand how to treat them.

And if you do have "training" and are saying what you do with authority, you're still incorrect because there are unfortunately a lot of bad child-rearing models taught out there. These have all proven with research to be ineffective and detrimental, such as ones that encourage corporal punishment, other harsh forms of discipline that serve more to punish than correct, and ones that don't give children the space to say they're not comfortable doing expected social niceties involving physical contact.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Please share the research on how making siblings hug negatively affects them. Must be a ton.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt - It's about teaching children bodily autonomy and that they don't have to be physically affectionate with other people if they don't feel like it. I really, really hope you're not involved in children's education or childcare on any level without knowing this.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Please don't have kids.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Please don't have children. Please stop interacting with children. Fuck is wrong with you