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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-21 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #6072 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6072 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
My best friend’s ignoring me and I don’t know why. We used to meet up once a month just to get out of our houses and catch up, but it’s been three months and I haven’t seen her. She said she was too busy to meet up and I told her to just let me know when she’s not busy, but she never replied. I messaged her on her birthday and said I had her present, but she left me on read. I’m just feeling really sad ‘cause I don’t know what I did wrong.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
Do you know if she's okay?

I guess you could message her one more time and say you miss her and hope she's doing okay.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
Are you me? Also having this, OP.

There's always the possibility that she may just have a lot going on or be going through something; I know it's super easy to feel like "what have I done wrong?" but maybe try leading just with "I noticed you've been quiet lately, is everything okay with you?"

I tend to clam up on messaging when I'm having a shit time, so it's entirely possible she may just be dealing with stuff. I hope you guys can talk again properly soon.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 08:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry your friend isn't communicating with you.

I think you can't be certain if you did anything to get her to ghost you, so please try not to blame yourself.
It's possible your friend is feeling overwhelmed or has other things going on.

I think a good option would be to give one final message. Tell them you just want to check in on them, wish them well if you want, and then try your best not to ruminate on this situation.

If your friend gets back to you, they will.