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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-21 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #6072 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6072 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)
There shouldn't be any shame in enjoying what you enjoy-- especially when that thing is f/f. But also, I mean... it's got nothing to do with what you think about queer men in the real world, and everything to do with what you have FUN with! If you're not going to enjoy reading about men's sexual experience/pleasure, then yeah, m/m is not for you.

I still remember when it was hard to find a lot of good ANYTHING that wasn't just m/f... though the m/f I did read back then usually did focus more on the woman's experience/pleasure! I don't know what the m/f landscape is like nowadays, because... well, now I know I'm a gay man. There are m/f ships I love, but I don't tend to want to focus on the sex they have. Same tends to be the case with f/f ships, I know that's not what I'm into if it's smut, but when it's not smut, I like to see the girls I like together get together! (or, I'll skim past the smutty parts and focus on the other parts of the romance, it's all good-- I mean with some f/f ships you really take what you can get! I keep falling for the rarepairs...)

(Anonymous) 2023-08-23 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much any mainstream and other published erotica for straight women focuses on the woman's pleasure. That means romance novels, otome games, and even works that have been deemed decidedly regressive for feminism like 50 Shades of Grey. So if the m/f you read back in the day was that kind of thing, or fanfic aimed at women, it's to be expected that it was like that, and it doesn't seem to have changed.