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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-08-27 03:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #6078 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6078 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-08-28 09:50 am (UTC)(link)
The point is that whatever difference may exist, it is 100% irrelevant to the asshole behaviour and should not be taken into account.

Again, I do not care if you're being an asshole because Mommy and Daddy shouldn't have let you on the internet, or if you're being an asshole because you're a 45-year-old incel dudebro crying because he can't get laid -- neither of those things matter to the people you're being an asshole to, and it is not their responsibility to take it into account, acknowledge, or deal with it in any way. The only thing that matters to the people you are being an asshole to is the fact that you are being an asshole.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-28 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
This. To the person getting bullied, it's completely irrelevant whether the person bullying them is an adult or a teen. (If you get down to the legal stuff though, getting bullied by a minor is actually potentially worse because it's even harder to get them to face any legal consequences than when the perpetrator is an adult.)

(Anonymous) 2023-08-28 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)
If it's severe enough - like some cases where it's led to suicide or hospitalization because of suicide attempts, or someone losing a job because of libel - it might be possible to go after the parents for some liability. The minor is committing a crime, so sometimes the parents can be accountable for negligence.

(Anonymous) 2023-08-28 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)
+100

People (who are more forgiving than me, probably) can care about the bullies' immaturity or motivations or sad backstory AFTER the bullying has stopped for good, but only after. Not while it's going on.