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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-09-18 04:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #6100 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6100 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-09-19 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, it depends. There's a whole lot of personal development people do in their late teens and early 20s that makes it hard for them to click with someone older on a mental/emotional level, but once you've reached your late 20s, your mentality and maturity level tends to depend on the person, not the age so much (maybe general age range/place in life still, but individual years matter much less). In my experience, broadly speaking, someone who is 28 and someone who is 36 will have infinitely more in common than people who are 18 and 26, even though the age gap is technically the same. I'm 41, and could see hitting it off with an individual in their late 20s that I had a lot in common with, and had the same mentality/was at the same phase of life as me, albeit whilst mindful of my experience and (most likely) financial upper hand. But I think what people are - justifiably - more wary of are people with a pattern of only dating people who are much younger than them, especially if they dip into that 18-25-year-old zone when people tend to be very much still figuring themselves out and therefore so very easily manipulated in a way they'll vehemently deny because they don't even realize just how easy it is until they too are older and see how easily they can do it to people that age.