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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-09-27 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #6109 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6109 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-09-28 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
what if she didn't want to get married or have kids? You're assuming she'd have done both of those things.

YES. That bugs me too, and is so, so common in pretty much any situation where a girl/woman dies (whether she's murdered, or dies in a car accident or something). I wish people wouldn't assume so many things about the kind of lives complete strangers would've led if they'd been able to.

I read a tribute to a little girl who was murdered once, and it included the standard getting married/having kids stuff, but it was framed more as a 'what could've been' type thing, and it also mentioned other things like 'she could've been a scientist who cured cancer' or 'she could've written the next great American novel' or 'she could've gone to the moon', and when it mentioned her getting married, it didn't assume it would've been to a man (and actually even was like 'maybe she would've someday realized she wasn't even a she at all, but a trans guy'). It was pretty long, with a whole bunch of hypothetical things she could've done with her life, and the overall point was like 'look at all the things she could've potentially done, but she never will because she was murdered and it's so fucking tragic'. I thought it was really interesting and was done in a much more real and human way than you usually hear murder victims talked about.

(Anonymous) 2023-09-28 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
That's a way better tribute than most victims get, that's for sure.