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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-10-01 03:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #6113 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6113 ⌋

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Re: Main stream Fandom Drama

(Anonymous) 2023-10-02 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
To my understanding, SZA saw the post/video because the fan [profile] _ed her in the post.

I think SZA could have simply ignored the post but I also think she's within her right to engage with the fan.

IMO this was SZA's attempt at reminding fans that she is a human being who sees and hears a lot of stuff that are said about her.
It's an attempt to appeal to others' compassion and humanity.

"What may seem like harmless fun to you can actually be hurtful to the person your whole joke is about. Think on that."

And to have the fans shrug and say, "You're famous why do you care?"

It's in-line with the "I'm just a dumb rando on the internet trolling why are you getting upset at my racist jokes?"/"so what if what I said hurt your feelings, grow thicker skin" of the world.

When confronted with the fact that your joke is a bad one, instead of reflecting on why your target didn't find your joke funny, you dig your heels into the sand and say it's not your fault.

I'm no longer hand holding asshole jokesters who can't self reflect on the barest minimum of basic human decency.

If you want people to treat your humanity with respect and compassion, maybe do the same to others.

Re: Main stream Fandom Drama

(Anonymous) 2023-10-02 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
😭 I meant the fan "@"-ed SZA

Re: Main stream Fandom Drama

(Anonymous) 2023-10-02 10:48 am (UTC)(link)
Lol :D

I don't really interested in this drama, but there is really a huge difference between vanity searching and then getting mad, and someone calling your attention to their bad joke and getting mad that you don't like this joke. If this fan did @, it's on them and they can gtfo

Re: Main stream Fandom Drama

(Anonymous) 2023-10-02 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
That's one big moon leap to a comparison with a racist joke some person types on the internet.