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fandomsecrets2023-10-02 06:54 pm
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-03 06:11 am (UTC)(link)A common thing I've encountered is getting to know some seemingly chill people who are into the fandom and I get along well with them...only to discover in private places when it's anything outside of the very specific thing(s) they like in fandom they're kind of miserable people. There's a fault to everyone and everything that isn't specifically what appeals to them and aligns with their ideals is terrible and they have a laundry list of what's beneath them.
I tend to distance from such fandomers even if they're a BNF or relatively cool in public places in fandom.
Bad experiences have taught me to be cautious of such people.
Like, I try very hard to be mindful of when I'm being too pessimistic/negative and I've had friends who revel in misery a little too much. And I either become the punching bag or the sole person to change the mood and it's exhausting.