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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-10-08 04:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #6120 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6120 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 41 secrets from Secret Submission Post #875.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-08 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you sure it's only one person doing it? Feel like people are overly inclined to attribute all the comments on a given topic that annoy them to one troll, when more often there are just multiple people with similar takes.
I could be wrong though, I'm not sure I've seen whatever behavior this is referring to, so idk.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-08 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Just ignore them.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-08 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Tell me you’re new to Fandom!Secrets without telling me you’re new to Fandom!Secrets.

OP, you’d have run away in tears within five minutes of a post going up ten years ago.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Welp. I think this is me, lol.

IDK, I don't want to make anything feel toxic, I'm not trolling, I'm just kind of a passionate person and maybe a bit socially inept. Am I too combative? Or are there opinions that people just don't want to see here? Genuinely let me know lol - I'm trying to engage and be part of things, not drive people away!

(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 10:54 am (UTC)(link)
DA

I think OP may be fatigued by opinions that start off almost immediately with ad hominen attacks and argue in bad faith. Some people will use these tactics first when they call out things they consider problematic. I'd be curious to see if calling in instead of calling out would be helpful in mitigating potential toxicity.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Okay yeah, that makes sense. To my mind I had been doing that, so it's good to be aware that I've been shy of the mark haha - thanks for the advice :)

(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're the anon I think you are, the issue is that almost all of your comments imply the worst possible assumptions about the poster. You seem to always assume that the secret is about the absolutely worst moral position that a person could possibly have in that scenario, which is an absolutely toxic way to look at anything.

(Anonymous) 2023-10-09 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
What do you mean by calling out? /gen