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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 12:33 am (UTC)(link)You have to look at it with the context of most of western storytelling - a woman's story ends with marriage/babies because after that she shouldn't HAVE a story to tell. She should be at home, taking care of the kids, making her family her top priority. She shouldn't have a life outside the home; no adventures; no career; nothing noteworthy to speak of. That's the context. It's misogynistic because "babies ever after" stories add to a long list of works with the implicit (and sometimes explicit) message that a woman can't be happy without marriage and babies.
The same is not true for men. There isn't a history of culture and literature assuming that men must have babies to be happy and must stay home with the babies and put his homemaking first.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 12:46 am (UTC)(link)But in "Babies Ever After," the stories of the woman and the man end at the addition of the baby. The happy ending for them both is presented as being found in the formation of a family.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-18 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)No idea how Scattered Logic holds up but I read the other fic a few years ago and don’t remember anything terrible.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 02:19 am (UTC)(link)LOL, maybe I should make that a secret.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-18 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)In the future, with artificial wombs, will all the babies be had and raised by good, non-misogynistic men, while women don't have babies at all?
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 03:02 am (UTC)(link)I agree with the anon(s) explaining why the trope is misogynistic, though, so I don't really have anything else to add.
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For my part I'm one of the few people I know who sometimes writes het pairings for my fandom, and as a result I'll sometimes get bizarre comments my friends who only write slash never get by people who are offended that LGBT people have the audacity to exist and that this being a het fic makes it a safe space for them to say so. Or who lose their minds that some of the background characters are in gay relationships, especially popular slash pairings (I won't tag a ship unless it gets a lot of airtime, so to speak, because I'm so tired of being catfished by fics that tag themselves as "A/B, C/D" where C/D gets one throwaway sentence in 50k words).
It's very regressive, yeah. My theory is that at the end of the day it's just shipwank, but because these people are largely conservative, they don't dress up their shipwank in social justice terms like the (largely liberal) broader fandom does, but instead using moral terms to explain why ships that aren't their OTP are wrongthink.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 03:22 am (UTC)(link)Also I thought a bit more since my original comment, and I think maybe some of the differences between the fanfic for the other old fandom I mentioned (Phantom of the Opera) and Labyrinth is Labyrinth was its own thing, with only a manga sequel I haven't read but have heard wasn't great. So the fandom is limited to mostly people who saw the movie as kids and teens, and probably some David Bowie fans.
Phantom of the Opera isn't, say, Dracula, but there are a ton of different adaptations and the ALW stage show is still running.
So even though I think of both as '80s fandoms, Phantom has accumulated more new and younger fans over the years who enjoy different kinds of fic that reflects modern social mores.
Which tracks, because I remember some Phantom fanfic that was originally published in zines in the '80s and early '90s, and even the technically well written stuff had lots of shoehorned Christianity, babies ever after, and homophobia. It's just there's been more and newer Phantom fic that is less regressive.
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 08:02 am (UTC)(link)I don't know if it's the same ratio, but occasionally I'll come across a Reylo fic in the wild with a plot/setup taken straight out of an 80s/90s romance novel (often in a modern AU, once even with Christianity as a background theme) and was a bit shocked. I mean, of course conservative Christian women exist in fandom and of course modern fandom romance plots/tropes have a very tight overlap with traditional romance novel publishing and of course pairings like Reylo would definitely attract a conservative Christian segment of fandom. But it's just that the places I hang around are so queer, non-religious, child-free, etc. that it's easy for me to completely forget that part of fandom exists -- even when I'm out here writing EXTREMELY by-the-numbers romance novel plot fanfiction myself -- just because I have no social circle overlap. It's kind of interesting!