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fandomsecrets2023-10-18 05:42 pm
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(Anonymous) 2023-10-19 06:57 am (UTC)(link)I will caution, be aware that you are both at different points in your lives now. Best method is to catch up and be aware how you have changed as we as how they have changed.
It's perfectly OK if your dynamic is different now as compared to when you were younger, it can almost feel like you're getting to know each other all over again.
Because I reconnected with an old fandom friend a few years ago and it was a different breed of heartbreak to realize my friend wasn't like how I remembered them. And I was too eager to fill the trust and vulnerability in our friendship too quickly with the idea of "we've known each other for so long" forgetting that there are a number of years we hadn't talked and of course neither of us talked about that gap and what changed between us and as individuals.
Some bad exchanges happened and we stopped talking and I regret reconnecting with them.