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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-11 12:27 pm

[ SECRET POST #6154 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6154 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-11 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess it depends. Did the person set out to be a BNF, or did it just sort of happen? Are they complaining about being a BNF in general, or about certain aspects of being a BNF? Does it seem like they're deliberately playing for sympathy, or are they just expressing genuine frustration?

I'm generally not a fan of the idea that, if someone is "big" or "famous" in some way, then they've got to be 100% happy with everything about it, and aren't allowed to dislike certain negative parts of it. That person hasn't ceased to be a human being.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-11 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh. It is easy to control how much being a BNF affects you on the internet. Hell, you can just nuke your account and make a new one.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-11 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

TBF Being a BNF means they've made some friends and connections, and it could be hard to let that go.
Also, even if a BNF wanted to delete their account and start afresh, it might not always pan out. Their reputation/name/reputation may still follow/catch up to them (not always in a good way either).

And honestly, to say that a BNF can control how much online affects them is a really shallow take.

I'm sorry you're not a BNF with all the fans jerking off over your works and socials but to try to say BNFs aren't deserving of some grace or kindness is off-putting and immature.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-11 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
But just because they dislike certain parts of their online presence doesn't mean there's nothing at all they like about it. There's no reason the only two options ought to be, "have no complaints" and "nuke it all from orbit."