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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-27 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #6170 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6170 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure. Just don't bash female characters while you're doing it given that, you know, there's already those men out there treating them like crap.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
DA Maybe you should just stop trying to police other fans, or take up you issues with the dudebros rather than pestering other female fans.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Why should you get to act like an asshole to other fans, and they just have to put up with it and not "police" you?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll bash who I want, thank. You're not my mom.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Then don't be surprised when people call you misogynistic.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Then don't get all pearl clutching when we call you an asshole. You can take your judgemental anti-mentality and park in in the trash bin outside where you belong.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Anti-mentality is going to fans of a character and bashing that character to them. Anti-mentality is not, "please leave me alone. I want to enjoy this character."

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
No, anti mentality is telling other people what they can and cannot do in fandom. Don't like? Don't fucking read. Block early, block often. Stop telling people what to do.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
So, first of all, aren't you also, right now, telling people what they can and cannot do in fandom?

Second, your position is that purposely seeking out fans of a character that you dislike and pestering them is not "anti" behavior, and that this is something you should be allowed to do, and that if someone doesn't like it, they're clutching pearls?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
No, no, no, this anon is allowed to do and say what they like, because only their feelings matter(and are correct ofc), and anyone pushing back to that is an anti because how dare anyone not agree with them??? Unthinkable!

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
It comes across a lot like, "how dare anyone not let me harass them?"

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
You seem to not understand who the harasser is. The situation is thus:


"I like to talk about characters I don't like on my blog."

Person comes in "How dare you bash thing that I like! You can't do that, given that, you know, there's already those men out there treating them like crap."

Blogger "I'll bash what I want, thank, and if you keep trying to tell me what I can and cannot do, that's harassment and you will be blocked."

You: blogger, how dare you harass them!

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
They never said they did it on their blogs, they said they'd bash whatever character they want. Where that is: who knows, but if it's outside their blog or if they tag it then it's going into the wild west of the fandom and negative pushback WILL happen, and it is incredibly bonkers to act like it shouldn't.

Don't want to get shit then don't start shit.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
No, you can go and bash whoever you like. I'm not your mom. But if there's a thread going on talking about things they don't like about a character, you don't HAVE to go in and talk about how reading that thread hurts your feelings because you DO like that character so they're not allowed to do that. They didn't come into your house, don't go into their thread. DLDR and GTFO.

Cause that's what you did. You said this:
Just don't bash female characters while you're doing it.

THAT is telling people what they can and cannot do in their own conversations. It has bug fuck all to do with YOU. So butt out.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
If you act like a dick people will respond back like assholes, shockingly actions have consequences and you are not free of them no matter how morally righteous you think you are about it. Which funnily makes YOU more of an anti.

But then that term means nothing anymore.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Disinterest in your female darlings is not bashing.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
You're right, and I don't think it is. I think disinterest is disinterest, and bashing is bashing.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
It's not, but seeking out spaces for them to go and spew shit about said character to the fans is.

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
DA

THIS space isn't that. So why spew your vitriol here?