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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-28 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6171 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6171 ⌋

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Re: Question for gay/straight people

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 02:52 pm (UTC)(link)
>>A lesbian may be into butch women but not into trans men who have similar physical characteristics because they cannot see themselves in a straight dynamic

I don't think for me it's even the "straight dynamic" that turns me off. You can have a straight dynamic even between a butch and a femme lesbian and that is the preference of a sizeable number of lesbian couples.

I'm a butch lesbian who has been attracted to other butches, masculine non-binary people and non-femme trans women.
But I'm really REALLY NOT into cis and trans men. It's like... you ARE a man. I'm not into men.
I was really into an androgynous person who identified as non-binary back when I first knew them. I found them super hot! But then they came out as a trans man and POOF all my attraction was suddenly gone.

On the other hand, I've been attracted to a person who identified as a cis man when they were still in the closed (yeah, that kind of made me think I was bi for a moment lol), but then they came out as a trans woman and I was like AH, SO THAT'S WHY I FIND YOU HOT!

I just can't explain it myself. It's like... an energy I feel.
Shit is confusing.

Re: Question for gay/straight people

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I wasn't speaking for all people: see all the use of "might" "may" "can" etc. I'm just trying to explain for OP that this is true for *some* people... because it is.

A straight dynamic doesn't necessarily mean roles only within the relationship, either. Someone may play all the stereotypical male roles and another might play all the stereotypical female roles but - like a lesbian or straight man might not want someone who wants to be referred to as their actual, serious romantic/sexual boyfriend/husband, and that instantly makes that person unattractive. Or a gay man or straight woman doesn't want someone who wants to be referred to as their actual, serious romantic/sexual girlfriend/wife.

This isn't only a social dynamic thing because this is a physical sexual turn-off to many people, in the same way that someone referring to their lover as "daddy/mommy" turns some people on but causes physical revulsion in others even if w/e not a single thing actually wrong with that between consenting adults.

Re: Question for gay/straight people

(Anonymous) 2023-11-30 02:55 pm (UTC)(link)
>>I wasn't speaking for all people

UH... yeah. I know. I just wanted to share my experience. Because, as I said: shit is confusing.

I explicitly wrote [I don't think for me it's even the "straight dynamic" that turns me off.] Notice the use of "for ME" and "turn ME off". I was talking about myself... I wasn't debating you...

Sorry I used your comment to expand on it with my personal feelings/experience.
I didn't want to ruffle your feathers.