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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-12-16 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #6189 ]


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(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
Good god. I reckon I came off lightly, as the youngest of three, that being the case. (I hope the youngest is OK?)

Why people have more than one kid so the oldest can have a playmate is beyond me. Lifelong resentment is the least of it.

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, they are alright. It was oldest daughter and middle one. Oldest was jealous, also probably traumatized about birth of her sister. (long story, but it was a... thing). So her frustration resulted in trying to break this new "toy".
The youngest has non of this problems. But she is such a precious nonplussed child, absolutely different from her sisters.

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 08:58 am (UTC)(link)
DA

While whether this stuff is a problem is child temperament dependent, managing young child jealousy is a parent issue to resolve. They might not be able to stop the jealousy but it is their responsibility to develop strategies to manage it. Plenty of people manage to have kids close together without giving them lifelong resentment issues.

(Anonymous) 2023-12-17 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Your experience isn't everyone's. A lot of people have great relationships with their siblings, without resentment. As another anon said, it's the responsibility of the parents to manage issues of jealousy, and it's not a foregone conclusion that they'll fail.