[ SECRET POST #6207 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6207 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

It tends to be much more complicated in reality. Like sure I'm the first person to say 'leave them!!' at a cheating partner but when kids are involved and possible joint assets/financial stability it can be a lot harder to just up and leave. Plus she likely still loves him and a lot of people are willing to move past cheating because of that.

And ultimately we don't know them as people or what's been discussed behind the social media lens, could be she just really isn't all that bothered by his cheating, or maybe she is but the kids need to be grown before she can leave. I've seen that more than once in my life.

[(Anonymous)]

Life is never so simple, unfortunately. Ending a marriage is usually a big deal and it’s difficult untangling assets. That’s not even touching in the emotional impact. When divorce happens, suddenly everything you have needs to be doubled: you need another home, another car if you didn’t already have one, another complete set of furniture and everything that fills the kitchen. With kids involved, it’s way more complicated emotionally and usually about four times more expensive because typically both parents have to have a large house with a bedroom for each child fully equipped with toys, full wardrobe, school supplies, etc. and the custody agreement/mandate often means one parent is stuck living somewhere they don’t want to or might not be able to afford or find housing that meets the requirements. Both parents will always have to provide to the same level of living conditions that existed pre separation, which will be a much bigger financial strain that makes it difficult to be there for the children emotionally.
I know so many couples and families that have stayed together just because they couldn’t afford to divorce.

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It's hard to make what you think is the right choice when in a situation like April's.

Me, personally, I wouldn't be able to forgive. But I'm not April, I don't know what her relationship to Ned is like, what her financial situation is and what her support system looks like.

It's never easy to leave a relationship. Add in marriage, kids, finances, living situation...I can only hope she is happy or working towards that.