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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-08-01 04:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #939 ]


⌈ Secret Post #939 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[identity profile] wyvernrabbit.livejournal.com 2009-08-01 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I normally dress girly, like, all the time, but I can relate to this secret. I'm gonna get really, tl;dr here, sorry: In my own former gaming group I was seen as just "one of the guys" despite the dresses, and it actually really bothered me. It's not that I wanted (or want now) to be treated differently because I happen to have boobs and a vag, but it was like they purposely ignored and disliked any feminine things I liked/traits I had, even when it's an apparent part of my personality that ISN'T GONNA GO AWAY. They liked the gaming and what-not, but some of them didn't like the fact I love other girly things I do and I felt like I had to either one thing or the other. It sucked.

It's like. I'm a girl. And I game, read comics, play first person shooters and Warhammer 40k, and I want to be accepted among others who do this, but I feel like I need to come with a warning that if you accept me for being a geek, that's great, but you need to accept me for the other things that are important to me, too, even if it is fashion and celeb gossip and sewing and baking--you don't have to like it, but at least respect it.

Maybe I just had a shitty group of gaming friends, though. =/