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⌈ Secret Post #6297 ⌋

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Re: CW: Cancer and death

[philstar22]

Oh nonny, so, so sorry. You were there for him, and that's good. I'm sorry he suffered, and I'm sorry you are suffering. Cancer sucks. Losing a parent sucks. You aren't a failure, cancer is. He wasn't alone, and that's good. You are an amazing person. I hope you can take care of yourself and forgive yourself.

I totally get the blaming yourself, though. My dad ultimately died of COVID, and I'm the one who gave it to him. I still haven't totally forgiven myself even though I know it wasn't really my fault.

Please find someone you can talk to (having a therapist has helped me so much). Please take time for yourself. Please care for yourself. You matter too. Your needs matter. Grief is so difficult, and especially when guilt is thrown into the mix. I'm so sorry. And allow yourself the time you need. It took me a full year before I really felt functional again. And that's okay.