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(Anonymous) 2024-04-18 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)And "either magic/technology should be available to fix the problem in that setting so why is it still there OR the setting is not set up to accommodate the needs of someone with a major disability and they're not going to functionally exist at all" I don't really get how you can say this and act like eugenics is irrelevant to the conversation. IRL, people have been helping other people with disabilities survive since we were hunter gatherers, so like being in a harsh survival situation doesn't mean there aren't disabled people. A setting that ACTIVELY prevents disabled people from existing is one that's doing eugenics. If there's magic/technology to fix physical problems, that's a bit different, but there are people who are considered disabled now who wouldn't want their bodies/brains altered. Like, if a setting canonically has no autistic people because they're all cured now, that is in fact, bad and horrifying. And I think even with that kind of thing there are interesting stories to be told about the details of it, what happens if the technology breaks down, how does the magic create weird new problems, etc.
Sorry for wall of text, I'm not saying that every story has to fill a disability representation quota. I don't actually give a shit if a given fantasy story doesn't have any disabled characters. I'm just annoyed at the idea that disabled people don't/shouldn't have a place in a whole-ass genre of fiction.
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(Anonymous) 2024-04-19 11:45 am (UTC)(link)When we think of autistic people now, we think of someone like Temple Grandin; or someone who has some social problems or sensory issues but who is otherwise high-functioning. We don't think of the deeply, profoundly disabled people who have it, the people who can't speak or take care of themselves at all; people who repeatedly bang their heads against the wall (or engage in other such harmful behaviors), or who sit in a room doing nothing but tearing paper into shreds and react aggressively when someone comes to feed or change them, or who go into violent rages and seriously hurt their caregivers, etc. The idea that it would be "horrific" to cure those people sits poorly with me.
I dislike that people have in recent times advocated for doing away with "high-functioning" and "low-functioning," because there really is a distinction and a world of difference between the two. And on the low-functioning end, there really are those who need something much, much more than just society becoming more welcoming and understanding of neurodiversity.
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(Anonymous) 2024-04-19 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)I think a lot more should go into understanding autism and what causes them to become so violent in those cases vs "just cure 'em and make 'em normal" and IF there's no way for society to be better for them to function in, then we can talk about cures. But right now, the idea of a cure is centered solely around parent who don't want disabled children and making people more productive cogs in the proverbial machine. It's not for the betterment of their own life, but for the betterment of the fat cats up top who want worker drones.
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(Anonymous) 2024-04-21 12:21 am (UTC)(link)And my opinion is: It's not inherently ableist to not want to be hit, bitten, or screamed at by your own child for the rest of your life. It's human to be disappointed that you can't have a conversation with them as an adult without laboriously working through every possible communication method in existence. It's normal to dislike the prospect of changing your teenager's diapers. There's plenty of ableism inherent in organizations like Autism Speaks, and parents who talk about wanting to kill their child or something equally horrifying should never be platformed, but a little nuance is called for here. Parents, caregivers, and others who interact with a "low-functioning" autistic person are people, too.
Sometimes there is no underlying reason that someone's coping mechanisms veer to violence other than that their brain is so profoundly affected by their disorder. Trying to figure that out when the person in question isn't actively displaying that violence may be a tall order, and trying to figure it out when they are being violent can lead to serious injuries for them or for you. Studies are great, but they would also involve a lot of serious ethical issues for someone who may be inherently unable to consent.
Personally, I don't like the idea that someone has to take the House. M.D approach of figuring out an underlying reason for violent or otherwise deeply socially inappropriate actions rather than being allowed to say "I wish these behaviors didn't exist." If neurotypical people should have empathy for us, then we owe the same respect and consideration to them.
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(Anonymous) 2024-04-21 01:53 am (UTC)(link)