[ SECRET POST #6316 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6316 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Dating

[(Anonymous)]

I know I shouldn't talk... but I hate the current dating scene? I mean, all the dumbass expectations and pressure society has put on it and shit it all up. All this pressure to find a mate, to do things on a timeline, to value matching up over honesty, security over a genuine connection. Why can't people just... hang out? Get to know one another? Like I said, I shouldn't talk... and I'm not saying dating should be the same for everybody, because you should do what works for you. I'm just saying I don't enjoy being put under a bunch of dumbass pressure when all I just want is to get to know somebody.

Re: Dating

[(Anonymous)]

>>All this pressure to find a mate, to do things on a timeline, to value matching up over honesty, security over a genuine connection. Why can't people just... hang out? Get to know one another?

Now that I'm in my mid 30s I feel the societal pressure to dating simply because all my friends are getting farther and farther away, building their own life with their partners and kids and I'm left all alone.
I value friendships way more than romantic connections and boy, it is a lonely world right now. I just hope that I will get to build new solid friendships in the future, especially when I'm in my 50s and parents are free from caring 24/7 about their children so they can get into hobbies etc.
I just don't want to date. I'm not even aroace. I simply don't find all that interesting... I just want to hang out with my friends and play board games or go to cafes... sigh.

Re: Dating

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah this seems like it belongs in its own thread. OP said they want to date and this reply reads like shaming them or explaining to them why they are wrong for wanting that or something. Like I get your pov but seems like a weird reply to someone sad about not dating.

Re: Dating

[(Anonymous)]

It probably should be its own thread, but how the hell do you get shaming OP or telling OP they are wrong from the reply?