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⌈ Secret Post #6320 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Dragging my feet on quitting a group where it took a long time for me to admit it was full of folks who possibly aren't good for me and who I possibly do not want in my life. I feel like such an asshole after so many years. Like why can't I just be *cool* and *want* to hang around? Which is ridiculous because people are allowed to change interests and friends, but when it comes to me, somehow it's completely unforgivable. And arrogant thinking, as though I have tons of connections (I don't) and can afford to just lose friends like it's nothing (also ridiculous, I mean, I don't really have any friends but to be fair I'm alone most of the time so it wouldn't be much of a change).

I just want to make room for better people, people I can be myself around, who aren't gossipy drama queens that lack self-awareness and never care about their role in a bad situation that they, for some reason, just keep finding themselves in. I wish I were wise enough and mature enough to recognize good compatible people and maintain those friendships. But it always seems like when I find a group, there's one or two awful or abrasive people that I don't understand why the other folks are hanging around. But I can't ask them to leave so the only choice is to find another group. (I also fear being that abrasive asshole people are leaving over too.)

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

This sucks!
Maybe try taking more one on one friendships?
I have friends that have other friends I don't really care about but it doesn't really matter since I don't spend a lot of time with this people.
But boy do I understand how difficult is to let go of some friends because you are scared of being lonely.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm okay with being lonely, or alone. But it makes things difficult during times depending on someone is necessary (hospital stay for instance).

One on one friendships are still tricky due to extensive past trauma. I don't want to be alone with someone who's just going to harm me, even if they don't mean to. Obviously most aren't out to harm me but I fear I'll only run into the ones that do. I also fear I'll be that asshole who makes others responsible for my social life (which I have done in the past).

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, bye.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

We wish you would go but here we are

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

You weren't my friend to begin with, but you're certainly free to leave.