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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-06-22 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #6378 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6378 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-06-23 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
That's your opinion though, which I'm not disagreeing with you having but it doesn't mean that those who want to explore the sad sides of being queer are wrong or bad.

okay but there are tons of us whose experience with being queer HASN'T been sad or tragic and we would like to see more representations of that too instead of the default "being gay makes you miserable" shit. it gets very tiring when the default assumption is that being queer = suffering. some of us came out and got "well if you get a girlfriend then we're expecting you to bring her for thanksgiving dinner the same way we did if you had a boyfriend."

(Anonymous) 2024-06-23 03:50 pm (UTC)(link)
As I've responded to above I'm not sure what you're engaging with where sad queerness is the norm anymore? Outside of countries that sadly still have their version of the Hayes Code due to censorship, queer characters I see get to be happy, sometimes sad(because that's just stories sometimes) and everything in between. Not even happy stories lack sad moments.

And your want for happy queer stories is still your personal preference, which you are allowed to have and engage with, but you don't get to tell other queer people who want to write sadness that they aren't allowed to because you don't like it.