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⌈ Secret Post #6381 ⌋

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Re: Late night venting.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry nonny. Wishing you all the best.

I've never been married or been in a long term relationship, but based off long term friendships I've had (and reflecting on my relationship with my elder siblings), when someone is comfortable with you in their life, they won't truly believe that you won't always be in their life/always there foe them until you are no longer there. When they literally do not have the ease of access to you.

It's a really difficult decision to make no matter which way you choose to go, but IMO choosing yourself first is what is best. I understand if there are other factors getting in the way, but I hope one day you can leave.
Or at the very least, have your husband be more considerate and helpful and supportive of you.

I'm sorry, I wish I could do more to help. I can only imagine how difficult it is.

Re: Late night venting.

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you. I think you're right... we've been married a long time, and he's used to me always being there, always doing things for him to the point where he takes it for granted. But it never occurs to him to do things to make MY life easier. He does the opposite, in fact, then gets petulant and/or defensive when I point that out. I think I've put up with far too much in this relationship, believing that being patient and forgiving his faults was something a good wife did. Unfortunately, I think all that did was teach him that he doesn't have to be thoughtful or careful, and that I'll always be there silently cleaning up his mess and never saying a word.