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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-06-25 06:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #6381 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6381 ⌋

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Re: Late night venting.

(Anonymous) 2024-06-26 10:25 am (UTC)(link)
The way you write you already know your choice. Focus on your future - how minimize risks of you separating. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Yes, I know the feeling not wanting to burden your loved ones but you can rely on others. Talk with your friends, maybe we will have decent ideas. Talk with your community you can trust in. Mourn things but move on. And good luck

(also fuck your husband for doing shit when it mattered. I am angry for you. And not being able to aim? What is he? Fucking 5? That is disgusting)

Re: Late night venting.

(Anonymous) 2024-06-26 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I think I'm in the mourning and trying to plan my exit strategy, because I wish he would be a more responsible, considerate partner but he's consistently demonstrated that he's not willing to put much effort into doing this.

And yes, you get it re: the aiming. It's just one tiny example of how I can't say anything about his behavior because no matter how discreet or understanding I tryto be, he gets soooooo hurt and offended, but... just clean up after yourself, then? He makes a big deal over how bad I make him feel, but somehow he doesn't feel bad about making me clean up his piss dribbles. We've fought over his personal hygiene issues before in the past, so this is an ongoing battle and I'm tired. It shouldn't be this hard to get a grown man to keep himself clean. There are a LOT of basic adult things that he ought to be doing on his own, but he needs near constant reminding and managing or he won't do it at all, and then he resents me for nagging.