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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-07-18 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #6404 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6404 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-07-19 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd love to know too. I've always been confused when it's tagged/treated as ~~Forbidden~~ in fics and other media. It could be awkward, sure, but forbidden?

(Anonymous) 2024-07-19 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I don't get it either. The only rule I would have in a situation like that would be "treat my sibling right" but if this person is a nice enough person to be my best friend in the first place, that isn't something I would need to worry about anyway.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-19 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Because if the relationship - either relationship - sours, all 3 people are affected. It shouldn't be about "asking permission" AT ALL but a conversation should be had when things get more serious to acknowledge that and figure out where people stand insofar as what happens if there's an argument or breakup. It makes things easier later on.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-19 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, that makes sense. But anon asked "you don't see anything wrong with dating your best friend's sibling" which suggests there is something inherently wrong with doing so.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-20 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Are... people not mature enough to be able to compartmentalize? Like, I've had mutual friends fall out before and it didn't hurt my friendship with either one because the issues the two of them had between each other were their business and that didn't affect my own friendship with them in the slightest.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-20 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of the time it's not about maturity, it's about messiness. Life isn't a neat and tidy affair - not everything can or should be compartmentalised.