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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-07-22 06:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #6408 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6408 ⌋

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Re: Husbands behaving badly...

(Anonymous) 2024-07-23 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's the degree of awfulness that's often the topic of threads like that that people don't experience in their own life.

If the topic was weaponized incompetence in general, then I absolutely know guys like that. But even that has limits; even the worst offender I know manages to make his wife some soup and do the grocery shopping when she's too ill to get out of bed, even if he can't manage the same when their toddler is sick and she's stressed out from having to take care of their child on top of work and household chores.

So when examples like guys apparently incapable of wiping their butt properly because that might make them gay are treated as normal that's genuinely not my experience.

I would say as the only single in my friend group, I'm certainly told about all kinds of grievances. Maybe it's my friend group but I feel like everyone is reluctant to talk about the worst of it with each other because no one wants to have gotten the worst deal. What I'm told in confidence vs what's mentioned in group settings is sometimes vastly different and I genuinely worry that one friend isn't getting a divorce because she's ashamed that the guy she married is a selfish asshole.

Re: Husbands behaving badly...

(Anonymous) 2024-07-23 06:29 pm (UTC)(link)
"So when examples like guys apparently incapable of wiping their butt properly because that might make them gay are treated as normal that's genuinely not my experience."

To be fair, I don't think anyone on FS said that specifically was normal. Just that poor male hygiene when it comes to wiping and showering is more common than people might think. The only people I've seen claim that not wiping their butt properly is normal are... well, the guys who don't wipe properly.