[ SECRET POST #6418 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6418 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Adults of FS, do your parents still treat you like a child?

[(Anonymous)]

Both of my parents think I can’t be trusted to do simple things like paint a bedroom, hang up a shelf, or figure out which bus goes to the airport. Worse, they get mad at me when I do these things on my own. It’s so freaking bizarre. A part of me thinks it’s because both of my parents lost a parent young and had to grow up fast, so this is their way of protecting me, but it’s really aggravating. And whenever I try to bring it up, they call me ungrateful.

Re: Adults of FS, do your parents still treat you like a child?

[(Anonymous)]

I've read that narcissist parents tend to see their children as an extension of themselves rather than as individuals in their own right. So when the adult child acts in a way they don't expect or don't want, their reaction is a bit over the top negative and the reverse of what you'd expect. A reasonable person would be glad their kid knows how to do all those things on their own, because that's a sign they've grown up and you did your job right. A narcissist gets upset...