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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-17 02:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #6434 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6434 ⌋

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Re: Weird culture trends that you don't get. (More Instagram stuff here)

(Anonymous) 2024-08-18 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
Regarding your anecdote, JFC, that's so irresponsible.

I get how people can be naive about this sort of thing. They have a good relationship, and they trust their partner, and they have the attitude of, "what's mine is theirs, and what's theirs is mine." But that simply is not the case for everyone. Some people are in relationships that make them feel afraid, or make them feel trapped, and they don't know how to get out (or don't think they can, or think it's the best they can get), and any little slice of privacy they can carve out for themselves is vital. And hell, even when that's not the case, people often want to reserve space that's just for them, and that's okay. We do not merge when we enter into relationships. We are still separate people, and are entitled to that separateness.