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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-28 06:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #6445 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6445 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-29 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
It's because being asexual and saying one peep about not liking sex gets a whole bunch of people up your ass about how aces think they're better than everyone else for not having sex and think everyone who has sex at all is a slut and we're a bunch of slut-shamers. Hence the reaction of a lot of asexuals eager to dispel that myth by overcompensating about how that's not true, we LOOOOOOVE sex just like you!

(Anonymous) 2024-08-29 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
Where in the world is that happening? The closest I've seen to that is people in LGBT spaces getting annoyed because a supposedly ace* person shows up and starts loudly declaring that displays of affection make them uncomfortable, so in order to accommodate their asexuality, everyone needs to stop.

*I say "supposedly," because I think these are actually cases of homophobes getting off on mucking up LGBT spaces, not of bona fide ace people showing up.

In any case, instead of lying and saying, "no no, I actually like and want this thing that I don't like and want," isn't the solution to just not talk about sex? Most people don't, in day-to-day life. And if does happen to come up, and someone's a dick about it, then they can get fucked.