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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-09-07 01:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #6455 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6455 ⌋

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Re: What do you consider a red flag in real life?

(Anonymous) 2024-09-07 09:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Lack of empathy.

Performative empathy.

Shit-talking people/gossiping, especially about exes or friends.

Using any kind of bigoted language 1) not in the context of a quote or play/other media and 2) that is intended to punch down at/demean a marginalized person in real life, and 3) doubling down when called out on it instead of shutting up and reflecting on it.

People who talk the talk but don't walk the walk, especially when it comes to important matters (like family, or just being a decent human).

Addicts of any kind who refuse help and don't manage their addiction.

Guys who get older but their girlfriends don't.

At this point, anybody who is still a US Republican. Or anyone still on the "both sides" bullshit or thinking their vote doesn't matter - you're just telling me you didn't pay attention in Government class. (And I know someone's going to go "I live in overwhelmingly (color) state! My vote doesn't matter!" Assuming this is true if each and every one of you showed up to every election, you are the exception. I'm talking about people who can't see the bigger picture here.) Whether or not you realize it, you're someone who doesn't believe a large chunk of the population doesn't deserve human rights, or you support someone with those beliefs.

Anyone who worships misogynists/racists/bigots/misandrists/anyone LGBTQ-phobic.

Anyone who thinks your fictional preferences/morals reflect your real life preferences/morals, no exceptions.

Re: What do you consider a red flag in real life?

(Anonymous) 2024-09-07 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
sa one of those "doesn't's" shouldn't exist in the final sentence of that big paragraph, but I gather you knew that.